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August 25, 2025 10:12 am  #1


Romantic Victims Who Can't Move On

Many oldies songs dealt with someone who had been in a relationship gone bad (either due to the singer having been left for another or having plain been mistreated) but was unable to get over it.  The songs express this inability to move on by the singer sending good wishes to the one who left or longing for the return of the one who mistreated him/her.

Here are some examples.  Can you add to the list?

Rubber Ball - Bobby Vee
I'm like a rubber ball
Baby that's all that I am to you
Just a rubber ball 
'Cause you think you can be true to two
You bounce my heart around
And like a rubber ball I come bouncin' back to you

Everybody's Somebody's Fool - Connie Francis
And though you only lead me on and hurt me
I couldn't bring myself to say goodbye.

Yet darling i'd be twice as blue without you
It hurts, but I'd come running back for  more

This Boy - The Beatles
That boy took my love away
Though he'll regret it some day
But this boy wants you back again

Punish Her - Bobby Vee
If she has wronged you
Found someone new
But you feel it's not over
Here's what you must do

Punish her - kill her with kindness
Buy her red roses every day

 

Last edited by GrimsbyFan (August 25, 2025 10:13 am)

 

August 25, 2025 10:24 pm  #2


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This topic brought to mind one of my favourite Elvis songs, "Kentucky Rain" ... 

Seven lonely days and a dozen towns ago
I reached out one night and you were gone
Don't know why you'd run, what you're running to or from
All I know is I want to bring you home
So I'm walking in the rain, thumbing for a ride
On this lonely Kentucky back road
I've loved you much too long, my love's too strong
To let you go, never knowing what went wrong

But that got me thinking of Ronnie Milsap's "Smoky Mountain Rain", because when it came out I felt that there were some very obvious parallels with "Kentucky Rain". So I did a search, and found the following info on Wikipedia ... if I'd ever known that Milsap played on "Kentucky Rain", I'd forgotten, but it's quite the connection between the two songs. 

The song is a first-person narrative of a man who has left Los Angeles and returned to Knoxville, Tennessee, due to "a change of dreams." He attempts to call a woman from a phone booth, but learns that she is gone. Attempting to find her, he then gets a ride from a truck driver who is going to Gatlinburg, Tennessee. Although he "can't blame her for letting go," he vows to find her "no matter what it takes." Rain is mentioned in the opening verse, in the bridge, and three times in the chorus. Milsap liked the lyrics of Elvis Presley's "Kentucky Rain" so much that "Smoky Mountain Rain" was written for him similarly, albeit with a slightly different flavor: Millsap had played piano on the recording of Presley's "Kentucky Rain" in 1969.

 

August 26, 2025 12:44 am  #3


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Lorne - Timing couldn't have been better.  I just finished putting together a two-hour special honoring Elvis, albeit belated because he passed on August 15, 1977, 48 years ago.  From Songfacts:
This features Ronnie Milsap on piano (he recalled Presley telling him, "More thunder on the piano, Milsap!"). Eddie Rabbitt went on to write the hit "Pure Love" for Milsap in 1974. 

 

August 28, 2025 8:20 am  #4


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Until You Come Back To Me (That's What I'm Gonna Do) - Aretha Franklin (co-written and originally recorded by Stevie Wonder in 1967, but not released until it was included on his 1977 Looking Back album)

Though you don't call anymore
I sit and wait in vain
I guess I'll rap on your door (your door)
Tap on your window pane (tap on your window pane)
I wanna tell you, baby
Changes I've been going through 
Missing you, listen, you
'Til you come back to me that's what I'm gonna do

 

August 28, 2025 9:11 am  #5


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I'm Gonna Knock On Your Door - Eddie Hodges, 1961

"I'm gonna knock on your door 
Call out your name 
Wake up the town, you'll see 
I'm gonna hoo-hoot and howl
Like a lovesick owl
Until you say you're gonna come out with me."

 

August 28, 2025 6:32 pm  #6


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Can't Get Used To Losing You -  Andy Williams
Can"t get used to losing you
No matter what I try to do
Gonna spend my whole life through
Lovin you

End Of The World - Skeeter Davis
Don't they know it's the end of the world
It ended when I lost your love

She's Got You - Patsy Cline
The only thing different, the only thing new
I've got your picture, she's got you

I've got your memory or has it got me
I really don't know, but I know it won't let me be

Last edited by GrimsbyFan (August 28, 2025 6:32 pm)

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August 29, 2025 8:25 pm  #7


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From the list of "Shoulda been a hit" releases, coming in at #84 in Nov., 1963 w.as Gene Thomas and "Baby's Gone"  Written by the all-star combination of Roy Orbison and Bobby Goldsboro, it also managed 11 years later to make it to #55 on the C&W chart by Bobby Wright.

 

September 2, 2025 3:08 pm  #8


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What In The World's Come Over You - Jack Scott
What in the world's come over you
Could you ever change your mind?
If you do, I'll still be here, dear
Waiting, longing for you.

My Heart Has a Mind of its Own - Connie Francis
You're not in love with me so why can't I forget
I'm just your used to be, it's wrong and yet
I know forgetting you would be a hopeless thing 
Cause I'm a puppet and I just can't seem to break the strings

Walk Right Back - The Everly Brothers
Think about the love that burns within my heart for you
The good times we had before you went away from me
Walk right back to me this minute
Bring your love to me, don't send it
 

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September 4, 2025 10:24 am  #9


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Return to Sender Elvis Presley
 
Heartbreak Hotel Elvis Presley
 
Delta Dawn Tanya Tucker
 
Runaway Del Shannon
 
Runaround Sue Dion
 
I Wish It Would Rain The Temptations
 
Since I Lost My Baby The Temptations
 
Do You Love Me The Contours
 
It’s My Party Lesley Gore
 
Anna (Go to Him) Arthur Alexander
 
Misery and Gin Merle Haggard
 
He Stopped Loving Her Today George Jones
 
Statue of a Fool Jack Greene
 
Crazy Patsy Cline
 
Walkin' After Midnight Patsy Cline
 
I Fall To Pieces Patsy Cline
 
Faded Love Patsy Cline
 
Sweet Dreams Patsy Cline
 
The Wayward Wind Gogi Grant
 
Some Velvet Morning Nancy Sinatra & Lee Hazlewood
 
Leader Of The Pack The Shangri-Las
 
Remember Walkin' In The Sand The Shangri-Las
 
Things Bobby Darin
 
Witch Doctor David Seville
 
I Wanna Be Around Tony Bennett
 
Her Royal Majesty James Darren
 
Goodbye Cruel World James Darren
 
Walk On By Dionne Warwick
 
A House Is Not a Home Dionne Warwick
 
One Less Bell to Answer The 5th Dimension
 
Wasted Days and Wasted Nights Freddy Fender
 
Before the Next Teardrop Falls Freddy Fender
 
Lonely Teardrops Jackie Wilson
 
Where Did Our Love Go The Supremes
 
My World Is Empty Without You The Supremes
 
Lucille Kenny Rogers
 
Please Mr. Please Olivia Newton-John
 
Blue on Blue Bobby Vinton
 
Blue Velvet Bobby Vinton
 
Roses Are Red (My Love) Bobby Vinton
 
She’s Not There The Zombies
  
 
 
Because of a death
Last Kiss J. Frank Wilson
 
Teen Angel Mark Dinning
 
Ebony Eyes The Everly Brothers
 
Honey Bobby Goldsboro
 
  
 
A girl and her mother
I Can Never Go Home Anymore The Shangri-Las
 
 
 
Does a dragon count?
Puff, the Magic Dragon Peter, Paul and Mary
 
 
 
Outside our era but a personal favorite
I Don't Know a Thing About Love Conway Twitty


Life is not a float trip
 

September 12, 2025 12:35 pm  #10


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Crying - Roy Orbison
Yes, now you're gone
And from this moment on
I'll be crying, crying 
Over you

Rhythm of the Rain - The Cascades
Rain, please tell me now does that seem fair
For her to steal my heart away when she don'r care?
I can't love another when my heart's somewhere far away

How Many Tears - Bobby Vee
How many tears can you cry when it's all over?
And how many tears can you cry when you want someone new?
That's a question I'm still unable to answer
'Cause I can't stop my love for you

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